Ah, well you kinda gotta rely on other things too, champ. Hands are one of 'em. Feel around a bit, use your ears and listen for what sounds right coming from who you're with. [A sigh, voice fading a little, like he's sitting back from the mic.]

Start gentle and go from there. Heh, just makin' sure you both let eachother know what ya like can be you're best bet.